DAY 8: SOMETHING REAL THAT WE WAKE UP FOR

I am Bengain, and this is not my real name. I haven't found anyone to talk about my journey in the world of business with, so here I am. and the story is [here]

Good evening.. How was your day?.. Have you seen what Lamin Yamal did just now? He defeated Rabiot.. This young child is truly talented.. Only 16 years old! I expect him to be a candidate for the Ballon d'Or, but I doubt he will win it.. Bellingham and Vinicius won the league and the Champions League.. There is also Rodri who had a good season with Manchester City and could be a candidate if Spain wins the title.. The younger generations are maturing quickly!.. May the Lord save LaPorta with Yamal!

You know, I had planned to talk to you today about the topic of problems and their solutions, and how it is important for us to understand the level at which we want to solve the problem.. But just a while ago, I took a short break after finishing the introduction above, and I was walking (I don't know if I told you before or not, but I work in a public library, and in front of it, there is a small square where we spend our break time).. And then I saw a young man reprimanding another for coming to the library every day for the girls.. And about ten minutes later, I also heard a girl asking her friend to go home because the guy she was waiting for didn't come today.. I have been noticing this issue a lot in recent years, even among older people!

I have a perspective on this matter, and I would like to share it with you.. Is it reasonable for someone's entire focus in life to be on establishing relationships with the opposite sex?! And for that to be what drives every detail of their life!.. They dress for them, not for themselves.. They go to places where they are present, not where they want or should be.. They learn for them.. They wake up for them.. They sleep for them.. Is this logical?!

I understand that both parties need each other, but I don't understand building one's life around it.. Don't we have dreams and ambitions.. Don't we have interests.. Responsibilities.. Something greater than a person to live for!

And what happens then?.. This person leaves us because they found someone else better than us.. Someone who didn't waste their life trying to please them, but was busy working on their own dreams and ambitions.. Someone more valuable!

And what do we do?.. Do we search for another person or what!

I don't want to delve into this matter any further.. I believe that my perspective has become clear.. That we should always remember to search for something real that we wake up for.

Isn't it better if we keep talking about Lamin Yamal! (Smiles)
Take care of yourselves.. And have something real to wake up for!